Comments on: What happened to femininity? http://tdhurst.com/what-happened-to-femininity Failure is my muse. Wed, 23 May 2012 01:41:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Guest http://tdhurst.com/what-happened-to-femininity/comment-page-2#comment-3684 Guest Sun, 20 Feb 2011 11:22:00 +0000 http://www.tdhurst.com/?p=379#comment-3684 What happened to just accepting folks for just the way they are? http://www.facebook.com/home.php#!/video/video.php?v=699501735995&comments What happened to just accepting folks for just the way they are? http://www.facebook.com/home.php#!/video/video.php?v=699501735995&comments

]]> By: Why hearing me speak is the best thing you could do | tdhurst http://tdhurst.com/what-happened-to-femininity/comment-page-2#comment-1049 Why hearing me speak is the best thing you could do | tdhurst Tue, 06 Oct 2009 14:51:13 +0000 http://www.tdhurst.com/?p=379#comment-1049 [...] I have opinions [...] [...] I have opinions [...]

]]> By: tdhurst http://tdhurst.com/what-happened-to-femininity/comment-page-2#comment-552 tdhurst Sun, 05 Jul 2009 01:43:05 +0000 http://www.tdhurst.com/?p=379#comment-552 Monica - yes, I agree with you on many of those points. I was planning on writing a piece of the wussification of men, but after being torn apart by tons of dumbasses who assumed I want women to wear short skirts and cook for me (sure, that would be great, but boring and unfulfilling) I didn't care that much anymore. Oddly, the most successful women I know laughed at this post, while those struggling or just unmotivated were pissed. You seem like you're in the former group, and that's good. Relationships SHOULD be about working together. Monica – yes, I agree with you on many of those points. I was planning on writing a piece of the wussification of men, but after being torn apart by tons of dumbasses who assumed I want women to wear short skirts and cook for me (sure, that would be great, but boring and unfulfilling) I didn’t care that much anymore.

Oddly, the most successful women I know laughed at this post, while those struggling or just unmotivated were pissed. You seem like you’re in the former group, and that’s good.

Relationships SHOULD be about working together.

]]> By: tdhurst http://tdhurst.com/what-happened-to-femininity/comment-page-2#comment-2583 tdhurst Sun, 05 Jul 2009 01:43:00 +0000 http://www.tdhurst.com/?p=379#comment-2583 Monica - yes, I agree with you on many of those points. I was planning on writing a piece of the wussification of men, but after being torn apart by tons of dumbasses who assumed I want women to wear short skirts and cook for me (sure, that would be great, but boring and unfulfilling) I didn't care that much anymore. Oddly, the most successful women I know laughed at this post, while those struggling or just unmotivated were pissed. You seem like you're in the former group, and that's good. Relationships SHOULD be about working together. Monica – yes, I agree with you on many of those points. I was planning on writing a piece of the wussification of men, but after being torn apart by tons of dumbasses who assumed I want women to wear short skirts and cook for me (sure, that would be great, but boring and unfulfilling) I didn’t care that much anymore.

Oddly, the most successful women I know laughed at this post, while those struggling or just unmotivated were pissed. You seem like you’re in the former group, and that’s good.

Relationships SHOULD be about working together.

]]> By: Monica McNamara http://tdhurst.com/what-happened-to-femininity/comment-page-2#comment-551 Monica McNamara Sun, 05 Jul 2009 00:59:11 +0000 http://www.tdhurst.com/?p=379#comment-551 You are pretty tough on us babes (huh-hemmm). But I shouldn't even be commenting here. I know I'll start something. I believe everyone...man or woman..should just be who they are. I don't need you to open a door or throw your coat down on a puddle for me to step over. I'll be me and be considerate of you, and I expect the same. Oh, and by the way, I would really like it if men's clothes lent themselves to much more of a masculine appearance, so I could appreciate the "finer" of the species. I am being a smart alec...I know... but that's what I felt like when you talked about sun dresses and ponytails. You are pretty tough on us babes (huh-hemmm). But I shouldn’t even be commenting here. I know I’ll start something. I believe everyone…man or woman..should just be who they are. I don’t need you to open a door or throw your coat down on a puddle for me to step over. I’ll be me and be considerate of you, and I expect the same.
Oh, and by the way, I would really like it if men’s clothes lent themselves to much more of a masculine appearance, so I could appreciate the “finer” of the species.

I am being a smart alec…I know… but that’s what I felt like when you talked about sun dresses and ponytails.

]]> By: Monica McNamara http://tdhurst.com/what-happened-to-femininity/comment-page-2#comment-2582 Monica McNamara Sun, 05 Jul 2009 00:59:00 +0000 http://www.tdhurst.com/?p=379#comment-2582 You are pretty tough on us babes (huh-hemmm). But I shouldn't even be commenting here. I know I'll start something. I believe everyone...man or woman..should just be who they are. I don't need you to open a door or throw your coat down on a puddle for me to step over. I'll be me and be considerate of you, and I expect the same. Oh, and by the way, I would really like it if men's clothes lent themselves to much more of a masculine appearance, so I could appreciate the "finer" of the species. I am being a smart alec...I know... but that's what I felt like when you talked about sun dresses and ponytails. You are pretty tough on us babes (huh-hemmm). But I shouldn’t even be commenting here. I know I’ll start something. I believe everyone…man or woman..should just be who they are. I don’t need you to open a door or throw your coat down on a puddle for me to step over. I’ll be me and be considerate of you, and I expect the same.
Oh, and by the way, I would really like it if men’s clothes lent themselves to much more of a masculine appearance, so I could appreciate the “finer” of the species.

I am being a smart alec…I know… but that’s what I felt like when you talked about sun dresses and ponytails.

]]> By: gothchiq http://tdhurst.com/what-happened-to-femininity/comment-page-2#comment-317 gothchiq Wed, 01 Apr 2009 20:27:59 +0000 http://www.tdhurst.com/?p=379#comment-317 "Arrangement"? What arrangement? I don't have an arrangement with anybody regarding how I dress or how I run my household. Nor do I need one. I support myself, I wear what I want, and yet, somehow, I have zillions of friends without having to conform to someone else's idea of what I "should" look like. Yes, I do have a male partner. He loves me the way I am. Those who don't can just keep on truckin'. “Arrangement”? What arrangement? I don’t have an arrangement with anybody regarding how I dress or how I run my household. Nor do I need one. I support myself, I wear what I want, and yet, somehow, I have zillions of friends without having to conform to someone else’s idea of what I “should” look like.

Yes, I do have a male partner. He loves me the way I am. Those who don’t can just keep on truckin’.

]]> By: gothchiq http://tdhurst.com/what-happened-to-femininity/comment-page-2#comment-2581 gothchiq Wed, 01 Apr 2009 20:27:00 +0000 http://www.tdhurst.com/?p=379#comment-2581 "Arrangement"? What arrangement? I don't have an arrangement with anybody regarding how I dress or how I run my household. Nor do I need one. I support myself, I wear what I want, and yet, somehow, I have zillions of friends without having to conform to someone else's idea of what I "should" look like. Yes, I do have a male partner. He loves me the way I am. Those who don't can just keep on truckin'. “Arrangement”? What arrangement? I don’t have an arrangement with anybody regarding how I dress or how I run my household. Nor do I need one. I support myself, I wear what I want, and yet, somehow, I have zillions of friends without having to conform to someone else’s idea of what I “should” look like.

Yes, I do have a male partner. He loves me the way I am. Those who don’t can just keep on truckin’.

]]> By: tdhurst http://tdhurst.com/what-happened-to-femininity/comment-page-2#comment-310 tdhurst Mon, 30 Mar 2009 16:42:58 +0000 http://www.tdhurst.com/?p=379#comment-310 Gnomes-- Thanks so much for contributing. It's complement, not compliment. I hope your clothes don't get too stained. Gnomes– Thanks so much for contributing. It’s complement, not compliment. I hope your clothes don’t get too stained.

]]> By: tdhurst http://tdhurst.com/what-happened-to-femininity/comment-page-2#comment-2580 tdhurst Mon, 30 Mar 2009 16:42:00 +0000 http://www.tdhurst.com/?p=379#comment-2580 Gnomes-- Thanks so much for contributing. It's complement, not compliment. I hope your clothes don't get too stained. Gnomes– Thanks so much for contributing. It’s complement, not compliment. I hope your clothes don’t get too stained.

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