Far too much of our time is spent on unimportant things. We have feuds with neighbors, spats with exes and arguments with colleagues or competitors on business tactics.

Ever think of how much energy is spent with all this petty bullshit?

Ask yourself one question the next time you engage in something negative. Does this shit even matter? Is there anything to be worked out? Do you even know why you’re fighting anymore?

Stop your petty bullshit feuds. Take a look at what really matters and get over yourself. If you think you’re wrong, apologize, if not, try to compromise.

Or just cut these people the hell out of your life. Deal with what REALLY matters.

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